I knew it! 🎉
Before we schedule the interview — a little peer-reviewed context.
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The direct-approach data
OkCupid once ran the numbers on millions of opening messages and found the ones that actually got replies weren’t clever or cautious — they were direct, specific, and asked one clear question. So consider this my data-backed approach.
Diagnosis: worth a shot.
Proposed treatment: one date.
So, what are we doing?
Pick as many as you like — or just one.
The Full Day
First interview, extended round
Wherever’s good near you — a walk, a museum or market if there’s one worth seeing, and however the day wants to go.
Dinner or Coffee
Wherever you like, unhurried
Good food, good coffee, or just dessert somewhere quiet — you name the place, I’ll show up in something presentable.
Something Active
Move first, talk after
A hike, a climb, a swim, a bike ride — whatever gets us moving before we sit down to actually talk.
Your Call
You’re the busy one
You pick the place, the day, the whole vibe. I’ll handle showing up on time.
Pottery Date
Make something together
Neither of us has tried it — perfect. We’ll learn the wheel, make a mess, and call whatever survives “art.”
When suits you?
You set the terms. I’ll work around them.
Got it!
Your answer just landed in my inbox.
I’ll follow up to lock in the details.
P.S. — this is probably the most elaborate cover letter I’ve ever written. See you soon. 🌸